So I think this is going to be interesting to read back and see how our opinions may
change over time regarding our impressions of the people here.
What first strikes me is how as you are bustling about, walking, going on the subway, or on your way wherever, I am taken aback that most people to not give any eye contact. Jeff even mentioned it too,
that when he first began traveling here he was surprised by that.... but his theory is that because of the many people we all come in contact with here - it would be overwhelming over time to look at everyone. I think he has a point. Another thing that I have wondered, is the people that you do look at - why the seriousness?? - probably the culture.... I am now interested in reading all of the books I have on Japan, as well as anticipation for our cultural training coming up.
So I thought, should I smile - or not smile?? I made the decision, that even if I will feel sad from time to time that smiles may not be returned, I am going to smile anyway. (maybe it is one teny-tiny thing I can show God's love ?? )
In other situations, you receive a very different reception from the people. For instance when you are a patron at a store, the people are so delightful and considerate. It was interesting hearing the other parents talk today that they were all excited to return to Japan after summer break in their homelands, because of the "service" oriented nature of the culture. The parents mentioned that they feel spoiled here compared to the service they receive elsewhere. I am still not used to how attentive they are... if you are dining at a restaurant they are very aware of your needs, you almost feel like they are watching over you. That I need to adjust to, but you have to appreciate it:)
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